My Reason
I’m Valerie Nance, a Certified Transformational and Etiquette Coach dedicated to helping women break free from limiting beliefs, rediscover their confidence, and embrace their best selves.My journey began in the IT industry, where I rose from Help Desk Specialist to IT Director while juggling life as a single mom of three. When a layoff during the Enron scandal forced me to pivot, I found my true calling while volunteering at my church’s childcare center: empowering women to transform their lives.
Two stories inspire my work: Adrian overcame a toxic relationship with my guidance and now thrives in a loving marriage, raising her children in a healthy, optimistic environment. She says, “Mrs. Valerie saved my life, encouraging me through small victories until the war was over!”Alexa, a high school mentee, struggled with professionalism but, through coaching, developed tools that have propelled her success in Corporate America.
These transformations affirm my mission to guide women toward self-discovery and emotional growth.
If you're ready to break through barriers and embrace confidence, let’s connect, easternetiquette.com/life-coach. Together, we’ll transform your life, one conversation at a time. Here’s to your transformation, growth, and success!
Coaching Modality
I have always had a passion for grace, elegance, and overall femininity. I believe every lady and adolescent girl can thrive in life while embracing their femininity. Unfortunately, unfair life circumstances can sometimes compromise these innate feminine qualities, jeopardizing self-confidence, self-awareness, and self-resilience. To address this, I offer The Refined Woman’s Way, a comprehensive transformative journey crafted to guide ladies in embodying the quintessential qualities of a refined woman.
While many coaches focus on self-doubt, self-confidence, and developing a positive mindset, my unique skill set extends beyond these areas. In addition to addressing self-doubt and confidence, I specialize in coaching clients to embrace and express their femininity, refine etiquette qualities such as poise and posture, improve dining skills, and create a personal brand through attitude and attire.
My story began in my adolescent years when I was often considered the underdog in various aspects of life, from school to friendships. This compromised my confidence and developed self-doubt and low self-esteem. These challenges stemmed from a car accident that resulted in a vision disability called Convergence Insufficiency, which affects how my eyes connect with my brain when looking at objects, reading, comprehending and my overall self-confidence. Through therapy and rebuilding my intrinsic confidence, I developed a resilient and high achieving mindset. I believe my experiences can help other ladies overcome self-doubt, insecurities, low confidence, and social anxiety.
The Refined Woman’s Way offers a unique and transformative journey, using the acronym REFINE, to Renew your Mind, Empower your Emotions, Femininity Mastery, Impact Change, Nurture Image, and Elevate Brand, to embrace femininity, enhance etiquette skills, and cultivate an elegant personal brand. Drawing from my own experiences and expertise, I am committed to coaching clients through a comprehensive 90-day program designed to elevate self-image, inspire femininity, and refine personal style.
Master Plans
- Private Coaching
- Relationship Coaching
- Entrepreneur Coaching
- Group Coaching
- Etiquette Coaching
- Business Etiquette Coaching
Philosophy
I believe in the transformative power of embodying the quintessential qualities of a refined woman. My philosophy is rooted in the position that every woman embodies a unique and powerful feminine essence that, when nurtured and cultivated, can elevate her presence and influence in all areas of life.
My comprehensive 90-day one-on-one journey is meticulously designed to guide women in nurturing their self-image, cultivating their femininity, and refining their personal style. We understand that true refinement goes beyond external appearances; it is about inspiring inner confidence, grace, and poise.
